Friday, July 28, 2017

PrEP in the Philippines

The Philippines has started a pilot project on PrEP or pre-exposure prophylaxis.

Around 200 healthy LGBT individuals (HIV negative) will participate in this two year long research.

PrEP if taken daily can reduce chances of HIV infection.

This is great news for the Philippines which has among the fastest HIV infection rate in the world.

http://www.gmanetwork.com/news/lifestyle/healthandwellness/619762/phl-tests-anti-hiv-drug-as-cases-hit-record-high



Thursday, May 25, 2017

International AIDS Candlelight Memorial

This years theme for the International AIDS Candlelight Memorial is "Ending AIDS Together"

Together we can stop HIV AIDS.

Always wear a condom and practice safer sex.

Be responsible for yourself and other!







Saturday, May 13, 2017

Beware of jhoncarlo21

Someone sent me a message in the blog warning me that someone is using Facebook Hot Guys of the Week photos in the blog and pretending to be them.

I checked this profile jhoncarlo21 of PlanetRomeo and indeed he is using a fake photo.  Klaro kaayo.


The guy in the photo is a Facebook hot guy of the week of this blog.  Check out this link 

http://www.discreetbai.com/2017/02/facebook-hot-guys-of-week_16.html

Again before you meet guys online always chat through VIDEO like Skype or Viber.  Para makita ninyo ang ilang dagway.

Thanks whoever you are who warned me about this guy.  Let us stay vigilant against people making fake profiles.




Friday, May 12, 2017

Congrats to John Raspado!

Congrats to John Raspado for being crowned as Mr. Gay World 2017!  We are proud of you!

Photo taken from Mr. Gay World Website



Wednesday, May 10, 2017

Video : Bus Jerk Off

This guy was quite popular years ago.  He created several jerk off videos online.  Enjoy!


video

Friday, May 5, 2017

Black and White Photos

When I saw this photo, I was like...STEAMING HOT! 

I find black and white photos more sensual and interesting than colored ones.



Tuesday, May 2, 2017

Gay Terms from PlanetRomeo

Dating terms taken from PlanetRomeo website.

420 friendly – If a guy mentions 420, it means he likes to smoke marijuana. The term is thought to have originated in the US in the 1970s, and since then, April 20th (or 4/20 if you’re American) has become a counterculture holiday where people gather to smoke and celebrate weed.


Accom – Accommodate. If a guy can accom, you can hook up at his place, if he can’t, you’ll have to invite him to yours.
AP – Ass play. This could be anything from anal sex to playing with toys.
BB – Bareback sex, or anal sex without a condom. If you’re concerned about HIV.
BDSM – A term that encompasses bondage, dominance, discipline, submission, sadism and masochism. This can include all kinds of things, but most commonly involves tying up, blindfolding or inflicting pain.
CBT – Cock and ball torture. This can include various activities, from squeezing and twisting using your hands or using toys that do it for you.
CD – Cross-dressing. Normally used by guys who enjoy wearing dresses, stockings, wigs, make-up and underwear designed for women. But remember that there’s a big difference between cross-dressing and being transgender. While cross-dressers normally identify as men, and will only cross-dress some of the time, trans women identify as women and live their lives as such.
CF/Chem friendly – Not opposed to, neutral about, or actively-interested in the (usually mutual) use of illicit substances as an accompaniment or enhancement during sexual activity.
DL – Down low. If a guy is on the DL, it means he isn’t out yet and needs to be discreet.
Dom – Dominant. Dom guys are typically tops (but not always), and tend to like playing with more submissive guys.
DTF – Down to fuck. If a guy is DTF, he’s looking for a hook-up.
FF – Fist fucking or fisting. If you’re into FF, you can specify whether you’re passive or active on your PlanetRomeo profile.
FWB – Friends with benefits. Friends who aren’t in a relationship but like to hook up for sex from time to time.
LGBTQIA – An umbrella term used for people who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, questioning, intersex or asexual. Some variations include a + at the end to encompass people who don’t identify as one of the above but are still queer or non-straight in some way.
LTR – Long-term relationship.
Non-scene – Non-scene guys avoid gay bars and clubs and tend to hang out in more ‘straight-oriented’ places.
NSA – No strings attached. Guys looking for NSA or ‘NSA fun’ are looking for a simple hook-up that is unlikely to result in a second date. They’d rather go straight to bed for a steamy sessions than take you out for a candlelit dinner.
PnP – Party and play. Essentially, this means having sex while high on drugs, sometimes referred to as chemsex.
Poz – Short for positive with respect to HIV status.
Scat – Sex involving fecal matter (that’s plain old shit in basic terms).
Side – A guy who is neither top, bottom or versatile. Sides tend not to partake in anal sex and prefer to have sex in different ways, for example oral sex or through using toys.
SM – Sado masochism. Getting pleasure from inflicting or receiving pain.
Sub – Submissive. The perfect partner for a dom (see above), a sub is a guy who likes to be dominated in the bedroom.
TT – Tit torture. When it comes to guys, this refers to nipple play, which normally involves biting, twisting or using clamps.
TV – Transvestism. Not to be confused with being transgender, a transvestite is a guy who wears ‘women’s’ clothes. Also knows as cross-dressing (see above).
Vanilla – Vanilla sex is simply sex that doesn’t involve elements of BDSM or behaviour that could be considered kinky. It can be anything from oral to anal, but won’t include fetishes or toy play.
WS – Water sports. Sometimes called piss play, WS is for guys with a fetish for urine. It involves being pissed on or pissing on someone else, depending on who is taking on the role of sub and dom.

Tuesday, April 18, 2017

Meme : Bromance

Men who simply are not afraid to show their "sensitive" side...  ;)



Monday, April 17, 2017

Earthquakes in the Philippines

It seems a lot of Filipinos have forgotten their elementary and highschool lessons.  Here are 3 things you should know about earthquakes.

1.  No one can predict an earthquake.  We can only make assumptions based on historical facts and scientific data but we can not do exact predictions.

2.  The Philippines is located along the so called "Ring of Fire".  The earth is composed of ground plates (tectonic plates) that are practically moving and floating.  As the ground moves it creates friction and cause earthquakes.  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ring_of_Fire


3.  Since we can not predict earthquakes but we know it will happen, all we can do is prepare.  Follow earthquake drills and build homes according to the building codes.

Sunday, April 16, 2017

Happy Easter

Its the last day of the long holiday weekend!  Happy Easter!


Friday, April 14, 2017

HIV AIDS in Cagayan de Oro City

In past years, there has been a sudden increase of HIV-AIDS cases in the Philippines, most of which was through male-to-male sex.  The Department of Health has already declared an AIDS epidemic outbreak in the Philippines including Cagayan de Oro City.

For the first time in decades, the HIV-AIDS case in Cagayan de Oro City has reached double digits.  Here are the full statistics in the past years:


2008 - 6 cases
2009 - 9 cases
2010 - 14 cases
 2011 - 27 cases
2012 - 52 cases
2013 - 88 cases


Based on the statistics, the average rate of the viral infection is almost at One Hundred (100%) percent.  If we follow this trend by 2014, the HIV-AIDS cases in the city will reach the 100 mark. 

If you are from Cagayan de Oro City, call the AIDS Hotline number (8822-area code) 72-1189.  This is a service by the City Health Office of Cagayan  de Oro.  They will entertain your questions without malice.  If they do insult or embarrass you in anyway, call the attention of the City Health Officers and report such incident.  These people are supposed to assist you in anyway. 

See other related articles
http://www.discreetbai.com/p/oral-sex.html

Wednesday, April 12, 2017

Monday, April 10, 2017

Beware of PAWS111 (formerly GAWS69)

Wow. In just a day I caught two accounts that were verified to be fake and are known to rob users in PlanetRomeo.  PAWS111 used to be GAWS69.

Click on the link to compare

http://www.discreetbai.com/2017/03/beware-gaws69-profile-in-planetromeo.html




Beware of Bogz11

Here is another gay swindler in PlanetRomeo.  He used to be GAWS69.  Now he is using another profile and another photo.





I suspect the owner of this profile is Mike Alconera.  A well known gay swindler in CDO.  He usually use a photo that is close to his features so he can easily get away with it when he meets up with people.  (see his photo below)

So AGAIN before meeting someone always use webcam or video chat first to identify and verify the persons identity.


The notorious gay swindler in Cagayan de Oro.  Mike Alconera.


Saturday, April 8, 2017

Ginoong Iligan 2016

When I saw this a few days ago, I was like...what? Ginoong Iligan 2016 contestants looks better than the male pageant in CDO (Man of Himologan).

I am impressed.  I can't wait for the 2017 pageant.  Keep up the good work Iliganon!









Friday, April 7, 2017

Barry Manilow comes out gay

Photo from Wikipedia

After hiding it for decades, Barry Manilow finally come out and admits he is gay.  He has been in a relationship with his manager since 1978 and feared that it would destroy his career.

I wish Barry the best.  He deserves to be happy and free to choose who he loves.


https://www.theguardian.com/music/2017/apr/05/barry-manilow-reveals-he-is-gay

Tuesday, April 4, 2017

Saturday, April 1, 2017

Don't be a fool

Its April Fools Day!  Don't be fooled by swindlers online.

Anyone can now download photos online and pretend to be that person.   That is why before you meet up personally, chat first through Skype or Viber and do a video chat.  Magkita mo sa webcam or video.  In this way you are sure the person you meet online is the same person you are going to meet face to face.  This is how you avoid so called "posers".

If the person has so many excuses that his phone could not download apps, that the webcam is broken and so on, there is something wrong with him.  He is hiding something and therefore his intentions towards you is questionable.

If you are already horny and you want to meet the person immediately, do it in a public area or outside the hotel.  In case the person you meet is not the same one in the profile, you can immediately say NO and leave.  Never just say "sige nalang", "bahala na" or "pwede na" and then allow that person to go to your hotel room and house.  If he already fooled you online then I think you know what would happen next.

ALWAYS think about your safety first.  Unsahay lagi mag una ang uwag.

When robbed, fight back if the situation allows you to do so.  Shout if you can!  They are also afraid of being caught or revealed.  Several victims have done this and they were able to get assistance.

And lastly report this matter to the police.  It is important that the police are aware of what is happening. If no one reports this incident, these swindlers will keep on robbing people.

Sunday, March 26, 2017

Jaimie Wilson

Jaimie Wilson is a transgender (female to male).  He showed his before and after looks.  He looked good as a girl and hot as a man.


Thursday, March 23, 2017

Beware GAWS69 Profile in PlanetRomeo

Someone messaged me that GAWS69 profile in PlanetRomeo is a swindler.

True enough when I checked his profile and read his Guestbook entries there were complaints. (When checking a profile read Guestbook entries)

The pictures in the profile are fake.

Again before meeting up with someone chat first through webcam or video.  You can do it in Viber, Skype or any chat app with video function.  If the guy refuses because he is "discreet", then that is a warning sign.

If you really want to meet the person then meet him in a public area like a mall.  In this way you can immediately refuse and leave or seek assistance in the mall just in case.  Do not meet the person in your house or hotel room.  

Common sense dictates that if the person is not the same in the profile then beware.  If he fooled you in his profile, he has bad intentions.



Tuesday, March 21, 2017

Duterte backtracks on gay marriage


During the Presidential campaign, candidates where asked on their opinion on same-sex marriage.  Mayor Duterte showed his support for same-sex marriage. 

In a TV interview with Vice Ganda last July 2015, he talked about gays being oppressed or bullied.  That he cares for people who were oppressed. 
(http://www.rappler.com/nation/99176-duterte-same-sex-marriage-vice-ganda)


However in his official trip to Myanmar he declared his opposition to same-sex marriage.  Personally I was surprised by this.  I was expecting a law on gay marriage to happen considering Davao City passed an Anti-Discrimination ordinance in 2012 in support of Ladlad Party who was denied by the COMELEC to run for the Party List system.

It is my hope that Pres. Digong changes his mind on this issue.  This is a promise he made to the Filipino LGBT community.  

A promise is a promise Mr. President.  You were elected because of these promises.  Please do not disappoint us.

Monday, March 20, 2017

CDO Photographer forces model to have sex


Beware of a photographer in Cagayan de Oro who offers photo services to wannabe models but forces them to have unprotected sex with him.

I was able to talk to one of his "models" and he admitted being forced to have unprotected sex with the photographer.  Take note, forcing someone to have sex with you is tantamount to rape!

To avoid this from happening, never agree to an "exclusive" pictorial in secluded places like the room or house of the photographer unless with a trusted companion or companions.

Since this information is not verified.  All I can do right now is warn people about it.

Friday, March 3, 2017

We are all GAY!

There is this profile in PlanetRomeo that complains about gay or effeminate users online.  That the site is becoming disgusting because there are just too many effeminate users.

Whether you are discreet, bisexual, tripper or whatever label you want to claim, as long as you are into same-sex relationship or same-sex intercourse, then you are simply GAY!  

Remember that the term GAY is a general term applied to everyone including lesbians.

So stop bashing your own kind.  Besides if you are not gay, then what are you doing in a gay online dating site?

Tuesday, February 14, 2017

Happy Valentines!

Happy Valentines to everyone!  I am pretty sure the drive through motels will be fully booked tonight :)



Friday, February 10, 2017

Facebook Hot Guys of the Week

Face wise he is not really my type but looking at this guy half naked.  I am like...damn...he looks like a 1980's Filipino porn star hahahaha




Wednesday, February 8, 2017

Beware of Fake Online Profiles

I am not sure if the profiles below are duplicates or was catfished but when I sent a message to both profiles regarding the dangers of online dating, the response were quite different.

One profile thanked me for the warning him about it while the other simply blamed the victims for being stupid.

This is a perfect example of catfishing or fake profiles.

Beware of sending photos to strangers.  Place watermarks on your photos or better yet do video chat or webcam.




Monday, February 6, 2017

Nick Brack

Son of an Australian politician, he now promotes his underwear brand which he gladly posed in an Australian gay magazine.  And cant we not talk about that bulge!  Ohh Australia...





http://www.homotrophy.com/images/2011/img/nick-bracks-for-dna-magazine-3.jpg

Friday, February 3, 2017

Short Film : El Primo

El Primo or The Cousin is another film directed by Marco Berger.  Typical of any Marco Berger film, there is that sexual tension at the beginning, building up to the climax.



Monday, January 30, 2017

Miss France wins Miss Universe 2016-2017


Vive la France!  Congrats to Miss France, Iris Mittenaere for winning Miss Universe 2016-2017 pageant.

http://www.rappler.com/life-and-style/specials/miss-universe/159945-france-iris-mittenaere-wins-miss-universe-2016

Catfishing

Catfishing in gay social media sites is a growing problem especially in Cagayan de Oro City.

Catfishing is when someone creates a fake profile (fake photographs) on social media sites to trick people into thinking they are somebody else.  They make up life stories and use photographs of unsuspecting victims to create fake identities.  (https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/1754916/what-is-catfishing-and-how-do-you-know-if-its-happening-to-you/)

Aside from being catfished, your identity might be stolen.  When you share your photo, make sure you watermark it.  Put a mark on your photo so no one can claim it as their own.

Always ask to chat through webcam first before meeting.   You can chat through Skype, Viber and others.   If they refuse to chat through webcam or even through your phone cam (video phone chat), be careful.

These swindlers feed on your desires, on your emotions.  That is how they convince you to do anything they want you to do.  For example : "Magmahay ka gyud kung dili ta magkita", "Lami kaayo ko mo romansa, magmahay ka gyud",  "Karon ra gyud ko bakante, magkita na ta karon".  Never allow them to control you.  Control the situation before it gets out of hand.  

If you get robbed, report it to the police.  By not reporting these swindlers to the police, you are giving them permission to rob other people.

Thursday, January 26, 2017

Tuesday, January 17, 2017

Widespread flooding in CDO

Yesterdays flooding in Cagayan de Oro City was terrible.  I was lucky enough to get a hotel room and stay out of harms way.

Traffic is now moving but at a slower pace.  Clean up might take weeks.

I am hoping for the best for CDO.

http://cnnphilippines.com/regional/2017/01/16/Heavy-rain-causes-flash-floods-in-Cagayan-de-Oro-and-Misamis-Oriental.html


Friday, January 13, 2017

Video : Open wide

Always close the door :)  One of the hottest videos I have seen so far! Enjoy!


video


Thursday, January 5, 2017

Gay Film : Out in the Dark

Prepare your tissues! A very Romeo and Juliet love story between a gay Israeli and Palestinian guy.




Tuesday, January 3, 2017

Adam and Eve Maytinis Festival

Maytinis Festival in Kawit, Cavite is a unique Filipino translation of the ancient biblical scenes from the Old to the New Testaments depicted in dazzling floats.

What caught my eye is the Adam and Eve float.  Woooo...If Adams attire was way too sexy for such a "religious" festival, Eves attire is just too much hahahaha.



Sunday, January 1, 2017

Happy New Year

Hoping this year I would be more active in updating the blog.  

Wishing everyone a peaceful and prosperous new year!