Thursday, September 29, 2016

CDO callboy photo

I was reviewing old files of DiscreetBai Yahoo Groups and found this old photo uploaded around 2008?

I think he was a call boy back then.  I am not sure if he is one of those call boys who swindle gay clients in Cagayan de Oro.  Any updates on this guy?

Friday, September 23, 2016

Police gwapo

If only our police officers were these good looking, I would not mind the checkpoints! 

Wednesday, September 21, 2016

Cute jeepney passenger ass

While I was in a taxi, I was busy with my phone that I did not notice the jeep in front.  When the taxi stopped, my head moved up and there I saw the ass! 

The guy wearing black shirt with a number 23 on his back has a nice piece of ass.  I just could not help myself but take a picture of it. Bahala ka na diha Mr. taxi driver! Hahahaha

Monday, September 19, 2016

Risk of Oral Sex

Is oral sex less risky compared to penetrative sex?  

From what I have read so far, the answer to this question is yes.  Among the sexual acts, oral sex has less risk for HIV infection compared to penetrative sex (anal or vaginal).

HIV is transmitted through blood, semen or vaginal fluids and even breast milk.  The virus has to get through our bloodstream.

Now it does not mean if oral sex is less risky, you just suck anyone at anytime.  If you have sores or open wound in your mouth, having oral sex would increases the risk for infection.  Eating or even brushing your teeth can cause open wounds in your mouth.  So be careful.

As of the latest statistics, Cagayan de Oro is one of the 10 cities in the Philippines with high HIV infection.  In Mindanao, I think it is just second to Davao.

To avoid getting infected, the best thing to do is use a condom while having oral sex.  That is the only way to avoid contact of semen including pre-cum to your mouth.

Friday, September 16, 2016

Wednesday, September 14, 2016

Tips to avoid getting swindled in Cagayan de Oro City

I am reposting this warning.  I still get news of gay people in CDO being robbed or swindled.

To avoid getting swindled or robbed, here are some advise or tips to follow :

1. When meeting someone online, check their Facebook account or if not see each other through webcam. Today, most people have Facebook or webcams, so if that person does not have one, that is a warning sign.

2. If the person you meet online wants to meet with you immediately in your hotel room or apartment, that is a warning sign. Meet this person first in a public area or through webcam. If you do not like the person you are meeting, you can make an excuse and leave the place or simply turn off the webcam.

3. If you bring these strangers to your hotel room or apartment/home, make sure the hotel has a CCTV camera and the guy should register or surrender an ID to the hotel receptionist. Better yet, leave your valuables with the hotel receptionist for safe keeping and instruct them never to give it to anyone except you. Take a photo of the guy using your phone and send it to friends. If at home, make sure someone is at home to assist you in case of emergencies.

4. Gay swindlers are now in social networking sites. If the profile photo is not the same with the actual person you meet, that is a warning sign. Make an excuse and leave immediately. Do not anymore entertain them.

5. If someone asks you for a night out with his so called "friends and cousins", that is a warning sign. You might end up paying all of the drinks and even more. Sometimes you go out in a date, only to find out that his "cousin" will join you later. If this happens, make an excuse and leave! These swindlers sometimes operate in pairs or groups.

6. When in a motel, if the guy insists that you take a shower first, this is a warning sign. This is an opportunity for these swindlers to take your belongings and even your clothes. If you shower, take your clothes with you inside the bathroom and lock the door.

7. If you meet someone new and that guy wants to have sex with you, ask that person, are you a call boy? Some of these guys would not tell you that they are call boys. After sex they would suddenly ask money from you, even though you have not talked about it.

8. If a gay swindler threatens you that he will create a scene or "mag eskandalo" if you do not give your belongings, you should reply....GO AHEAD! PAG ESKANDALO. These swindlers are just bluffing. They do not really want to create a scene or else they will get involved in it and their identity exposed.

9. Beware of "masseurs" advertising their massage services online. There have been complaints of theft and swindling. It is best to get recommendations from friends or a reliable website.

10. Cagayan de Oro has a high HIV AIDS infection rate in Northern Mindanao. Every year infection rate in the city doubles (100% increase). You should not only be concerned about your physical safety when dealing with these call boys but your health as well.

Share this with friends! If you have been a victim of these swindlers, REPORT them to the Police!

Monday, September 12, 2016

Thursday, September 8, 2016

Photo alteration

The first time I saw the picture of this guy, I was impressed.  He looks handsome and clean.  I wanted to know more about him.

After scrolling down his timeline, I saw this selfie.

I logged out Facebook and watched TV instead.

Monday, September 5, 2016

Finding Prince Charming

The new reality TV show "Finding Prince Charming" is the gay version of the Bachelor.

Now this can be interesting according to the host Lance Bass.  Aside from falling in love with Prince Charming, they can fall in love amongst themselves!  Another gay orgy!

Saturday, September 3, 2016

Thursday, September 1, 2016

Mr. Gay World Philippines - Lanao del Sur

I was checking out Mr. Gay World Philippines contestants and I was surprised to see someone representing Lanao del Sur.

According to his Facebook account, he was born in Marawi but now resides in Metro Manila.

Vote for him online at