Monday, April 25, 2016

Fashion meltdown

I have been watching lifestyle videos lately in Youtube and it was quite helpful in guiding me what to wear or what not to wear.

First thing I had to learn was how to match my shoes with my jeans. can not just buy any type of shoes and then wear it with your jeans.  It has to match.

But after watching several videos, I realized there are several types of shoes for jeans and formal pants.  OMG! Its just the tip of the iceberg!

I then realized that I need to OVERHAUL my entire wardrobe!  This means shopping for new shoes and stuff.

So I plan to blog about my shopping adventure and share with you guys my experience in my quest to update my closet.  It really needs updating.  It is too 2000's. 

Friday, April 22, 2016

Gay Hollywood : Luke Evans

When I read that Luke Evans was gay, I was like...NO WAY!  The characters he played in the movies are amazing.  From Immortals (Zeus), The Hobbit (Bard/Girion), Fast and Furious 6  and Fast 7 (Owen Shaw), and Dracula Untold (Vlad).  

It is a far cry from the stereotypical gay roles of funny and quirky characters.

Unfortunately in the Philippines discreet gay actors (men) are considered as outcasts and could not even open up to the public.

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Tuesday, April 19, 2016


I give up!  The term transgender is already complicated enough and now we have cisgender?

According to the Advocate, cisgender is the opposite of transgender.  Sounds simple?  Not really.

There is still some confusion and again discrimination with cisgender people.

In my opinion, why can't we just simply things?

Sunday, April 17, 2016

Palarong Pambansang Cuties?

Sigh...I do not understand why media keeps on taking note of the hottest guys or girls in the Palarong Pambansa than those with sporting talent?

Photo taken from ABS CBN

Friday, April 15, 2016

Banana TV Series

As usual I was just watching Youtube and this channel was suggested to me.

It is a clip from "Banana", a British TV series.  The threesum scene was hot!  And Frank basically begging Aidan (Dino Fetscher) for a chance in love was just too much to watch!  

I guess we somehow went through that phase in our lives that we begged for an Aidan to love us for who we are.

Now I want to download or find episodes of this show!

Tuesday, April 12, 2016


In recently started to do some manscaping myself.  I have been trimming my body hair particularly my pubic hair.

Some guys shave off their body hair which is great.  It makes you look smooth and younger but when the body hair grows back, it becomes itchy and uncomfortable.  That is why I prefer to just trim my body.

When you trim, you still retain some hair but it looks neat and clean.  You also do not have problems with it growing back because it does not grow out of your skin.

I bought a Philips beard trimmer.  It cost around 1,500 Pesos.  The Philips body trimmer was quite expensive.  I think it ran around 3,000 or more?  But if you can afford the body trimmer, it is better than the beard trimmer.  The body trimmer is designed to trim long and tough body hair.  I am not sure if it can also trim the hair on your head.

Manscaping is important not only to make yourself look neat but for hygienic purposes.  Removing excessive hair around the pubic area will cool you down in the groin area especially this summer season.  Since some bacteria or parasites cling on to body hair, this will also benefit your skin.

There are several Youtube channels that talks about manscaping.  You might want to watch it first before you start trying it.

Friday, April 8, 2016

One 690

When I saw this video, I was impressed.  Like this is a Philippine gay bar?

It is a far cry from the sleezy bars I used to know.

Good to know that gay bars in the Philippines are improving.

Wednesday, April 6, 2016

Hair transformation

After watching this Buzzfeed video it got me interested in changing my hair color.  I don't know.  Silver or grayish tone perhaps?  But those guys are ripped and hot!  Damn!

Monday, April 4, 2016

The Eradicator

We do not really know when we die.  It is sudden and unexpected.  We sometimes leave things that we do not want our family and even friends to know or see.  This is where the "eradicator" comes in.

The eradicator is either a friend or someone trusted enough to go through your stuff like your porn collection and other skeletons in your closet, remove them so your family and close friends would not know about it.

It is embarrassing when your family or friends go through your things and find these skeletons in your closet.  You don't want your family and friends to remember you because of your huge porn collection!

I have slowly disposed of my own collection.  Most of them are video files.  One reason why I uploaded most of them here in the blog so I would no longer need to have them in my laptop or external drive.

Besides saving porn files is no longer practical.  With so many online video streaming, all you need is an internet connection and you are all good.

Saturday, April 2, 2016

Free HIV Test in Cagayan de Oro City

Every month I get inquiries in DiscreetBai Facebook account ( regarding free HIV test in Cagayan de Oro City.

You can get free HIV testing at the City Health Office (back of Xavier University and adjacent to Hall of Justice).  Go to the 2nd floor, Room 16 - Laboratory.  It only takes 30 minutes to get your result.

They will be asking you very personal questions like your sexual behavior.  Just answer them as honestly as possible.  They are not there to judge you but give you the best advise and assistance.

If you want to inquire through phone, you can contact them at (8822) 72-1189