Saturday, December 31, 2016

Gay Film : Freier Fall (Free Fall)

Freier Fall is a German LGBT film about two guys in the Police force.  

Borgmann, the main character is a "sexually confused" guy.  He denies his homosexuality or bisexuality.  He lives with his parents and pregnant girlfriend whom he loves so much.  

While in the police academy he falls in love with Engel another police trainee.  Borgmann is now torn between his new found love and his girlfriend now with a baby.  This causes him to loose control of his life (free fall).

There are already talks for a sequel to the film.




Thursday, December 29, 2016

Princess of Divisoria, CDO

Photo taken from Outragemag.com
A heartbreaking story of a homeless gay teenager living in Divisoria, downtown Cagayan de Oro.

Click on the article link
http://outragemag.com/the-little-princess-of-cagayan-de-oro/

Wednesday, December 28, 2016

Monday, December 26, 2016

Pop Star George Michael dead

George Michael was a pop icon in the 1980's.  He was known for songs like "Careless Whisper", "Last Christmas" and "Wake Me Up Before You Go-Go".

He had issues with drugs and his sexuality.  He was arrested for engaging in lewd acts in a public restroom in Los Angeles and public sex in London.

RIP George...

See news link at 
http://www.bbc.com/news/uk-38432862



Sunday, December 25, 2016

Friday, December 23, 2016

Video : Edging

Edging is not letting the person cum.  This heightens the pleasure until the release.  

I think this video was taken from Dr. Cum Control.  It has a very similar style.  Enjoy!

video

Monday, December 19, 2016

Security Guard Bae

If only our security guards looks like him everyday...if only.

The guy was featured in Unang Hirit show a few months ago.

Taken from Pinoyistics

Aussie guys

Oh Australia...your too hot to handle


Thursday, December 15, 2016

Beware of guys in the mall

Beware of guys you meet in the mall.  Most likely they are "call boys" who will steal from you.

I can confirm that they are now operating in a group with the infamous Mr. Michael Alconera (picture below) training new "call boy" recruits.

Please report these guys to proper authorities.  Better yet report them to the mall authorities so once and for all they would be banned from entering the premises.

You can check Facebook groups dedicated to call boy swindlers and ask for more information about these guys.





Sunday, December 4, 2016

Short Film : Consequence

Well, the title of the film is self explanatory.  Are you ready accept the consequences of your action?

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Thursday, December 1, 2016

World AIDS Day 2016

Once again we remember those whose lives were changed because of HIV AIDS.

HIV AIDS in the Philippines has reached epidemic levels.  In fact Cagayan de Oro is among the top 5 cities in the Philippines with a high HIV infection rate.

Always remember to practice safer sex and use condoms often.

Be responsible for yourself and others!


Monday, November 28, 2016

Flanagan defeats Cruz for WBO Lightweight belt

WBO Lightweight champion Terry Flanagan retains his title after defeating openly gay boxer Orlando Cruz.

Cruz was hoping to becoming the first openly gay boxer to win a world title.

We wish Cruz the best and we hope this would not be his last quest to win a boxing world title.


https://www.theguardian.com/sport/2016/nov/27/orlando-cruz-terry-flanagan-wbo-lightweight-title-fight

Friday, November 25, 2016

Gay boxer Orlando Cruz

Orlando Cruz is an openly gay boxer from Puerto Rico.  He is currently married to his partner, Jose Manuel. 

Cruz is schedule to fight Terry Flanagan for the WBO Lightweight title on November 26.

Cruz hopes to break gay stereotypes by winning the title.  

Best of luck to Orlando Cruz!

http://www.philstar.com/sports/2016/11/24/1646978/gay-boxer-cruz-fighting-win-world-title-change-perceptions


Taken from Dallas Voice

Taken from Washington Blade

Wednesday, November 23, 2016

Dangers of online dating

Not all people in social media or online dating sites have good intentions.

In Cagayan de Oro City, there have been reports of people on these dating sites being blackmailed or robbed.

To avoid getting swindled or robbed, here are some advise or tips to follow :

1.  When meeting someone online, check their Facebook account  or if not see each other through webcam.  You can even see each other through phone video chat.

2.  Meet your online date in a public area.  Never invite them immediately to your house or hotel room.  Better yet, see each other through webcam first.

3.  If you bring your online date to your hotel room or home, make sure someone knows by taking their photo.  Hotels have CCTV.  Make your online date register or surrender his ID to the hotel receptionist.  Leave your valuables to the hotel receptionist and instruct them never to give it to anyone except yourself.

4.  Gay swindlers are in social media and dating sites.  If the profile photo is not the same with the actual person you meet, lie to the person and leave immediately. 

5.  If your online date asks you for a night out with his "friends" or "cousins", beware.   Some of his friends might accidentally arrive without notice.   You might end up paying for the whole "barkada" or the entire group.

6.  If your online date wants to have sex with you, be a bit cautious.  After sex, some would immediately ask money from you even if you have not talked about it.

7.  If you are threatened by the swindler that he will create a scene or "mag eskandalo" if you don't give him your belongings, you should start shouting!  They are just bluffing.  They do not want any scene or else they would also get involved and their identities exposed.

8.  Beware of male therapists or masseurs advertising online.  It is best to get recommendations from friends or reliable websites.  If these therapists asks for your photo, do not give them any.  They might use them to blackmail you.  Again chat first through webcam before meeting.

9.  Cagayan de Oro has a high HIV AIDS infection rate not only in Northern Mindanao but the entire Philippines.  Always protect yourself.

Share this with friends!  If you are victimized, report it to the Police!

Always have a healthy dose of suspicion.  Remember that trust takes time.  You can not trust someone in a matter of hours or even weeks.

Friday, November 18, 2016

Insults


When someone calls you a fag or other hateful names, just smile.

These people could no longer defend their opinion or argument that they resort to insults just hurt you.



Thursday, November 17, 2016

Harrassment

I am constantly online sending warnings to users in PlanetRomeo - Cagayan de Oro regarding criminal activities going on the dating site.

Clearly what I am doing in PlanetRomeo is working because someone tried to harass me in this blog.  Harass me all you want but it won't work.

Whoever you are, you just verified that criminal activities in PlanetRomeo-Cagayan de Oro is prevalent and I should continue with what I am doing right now.

Hopefully the media would pick up on this and if that happens...good bye gay swindlers in Centrio, Gaisano and Limketkai.  Dili na gyud mo makatungtung aning mga mall.
 

Wednesday, November 9, 2016

Pods299 deleted

The Pods299 user account in PlanetRomeo was recently deleted.

It clearly showed us that who ever was using that account had bad intentions.

My constant reminders and quick action against this swindler paid off.

If you plan to meet someone, chat first in Skype using a WEBCAM.  This is the only way for you to determine if the photo in the profile is correct or not.  You can even video chat with your phone or in Facebook.  Kung daghan pasumangil nga dili maka chat sa webcam, be careful.


Again reminding people especially users of PlanetRomeo from Cagayan de Oro to be always on alert!



Monday, November 7, 2016

Kens96 is Pods299

Kens96 account was deleted a few days ago.  But this guy is persistent.  He made a new account with user name Pods299 and still used the same photos.  Pathetic.

You can compare it with his old account. 

http://www.discreetbai.com/2016/10/beware-of-ken96-planetromeo.html

Beware who you chat in PlanetRomeo - Cagayan de Oro.  There are so many swindlers and thieves online.  This has been happening for several years now.

Check out this article I made

http://www.discreetbai.com/2016/11/dangers-of-online-dating.html

If you have doubts, ask questions!

Help PlanetRomeo remove these people online.  Click on "Report this User" found on the bottom left corner of the profile.  Then click on Criminal Activity.



Groupsex entitlement

A guy messaged me online that he wanted to try groupsex.  Okay, good for you but he wanted me to basically organize it for him.  He asked me if I have a place, if I know people who wants groupsex.  How convenient!  A good example of entitlement.

Besides, I don't know him, I have not seen him.  Si kinsa man siya para mu ingon ana sa ako?  Pathetic!

Saturday, November 5, 2016

Dangers of online dating

Not all people in social media or online dating sites have good intentions.

In Cagayan de Oro City, there have been reports of people on these dating sites being blackmailed or robbed.

To avoid getting swindled or robbed, here are some advise or tips to follow :

1.  When meeting someone online, check their Facebook account or if not see each other through webcam.

2.  Meet your online date in a public area.  Never invite them immediately to your house or hotel room.  Better yet, see each other through webcam first.

3.  If you bring your online date to your hotel room or home, make sure someone knows by taking their photo.  Hotels have CCTV.  Make your online date register or surrender his ID to the hotel receptionist.  Leave your valuables to the hotel receptionist and instruct them never to give it to anyone except yourself.

4.  Gay swindlers are in social media and dating sites.  If the profile photo is not the same with the actual person you meet, lie to the person and leave immediately. 

5.  If your online date asks you for a night out with his "friends" or "cousins", beware.   Some of his friends might accidentally arrive without notice.   You might end up paying for the whole "barkada" or the entire group.

6.  If your online date wants to have sex with you, be a bit cautious.  After sex, some would immediately ask money from you even if you have not talked about it.

7.  If you are threatened by the swindler that he will create a scene or "mag eskandalo" if you don't give him your belongings, you should start shouting!  They are just bluffing.  They do not want any scene or else they would also get involved and their identities exposed.

8.  Beware of male therapists or masseurs advertising online.  It is best to get recommendations from friends or reliable websites.  If these therapists asks for your photo, do not give them any.  They might use them to blackmail you.  Again chat first through webcam before meeting.

9.  Cagayan de Oro has a high HIV AIDS infection rate not only in Northern Mindanao but the entire Philippines.  Always protect yourself.

Share this with friends!  If you are victimized, report it to the Police!

Always have a healthy dose of suspicion.  Remember that trust takes time.  You can not trust someone in a matter of hours or even weeks.

Thursday, October 27, 2016

Beware of Ken96 PlanetRomeo

Beware of this account in PlanetRomeo.  Reading the Guestbook entries, it is clear that this guy is a callboy and could not be trusted.

Also his profile title is so obvious.  Looking for sex but does not have a place.  He wants you to invite him to your house where he can then rob you.

Again, NEVER immediately invite someone to your house.  Meet the person first in a public area.


Monday, October 24, 2016

Gay Short Film : An Afternoon (En Eftermiddag)

The story is about two young boys who spent an afternoon together.  Little did they know that they liked each other.  However for some apparent reason, they could not express their feelings to each other.



Saturday, October 22, 2016

Dennis Trillo trunks

This video clip was taken by Dennis Trillo's manager during a taping of "Bakit Lahat ng Gwapo May Boyfriend".

Of course this video clip was released to promote his latest film.

Talk about that body!  And trunks....hugged his body perfectly!


Sunday, October 16, 2016

Tuesday, October 11, 2016

Dustin Mcneer

Dustin Mcneer was part of the Americas Next Top Model Cycle 22.

He was practically criticized for his lack of experience and immaturity (he was like 18 years old at that time).

Around late last year, his nude photos and video of surfaced.

What identified him was his leg tattoo.  It was quite obvious.







Friday, October 7, 2016

Budgie Nine

During the Malaysian F1 Grand Prix competition, nine guys from Australia stripped down to their custom made swimwear to celebrate the occasion.

Unfortunately, Malaysian authorities were not happy about this.  Their swimwear donned the Malaysian flag.  It was considered by Malaysian authorities as inappropriate and offensive.

They were reprimanded by the local court but no charges were filed against them.

And seriously, these guys looked good in those swimwear! ;)



Taken from new.com.au

Wednesday, October 5, 2016

Cure for HIV?

After undergoing HIV trial treatment, a man in the UK has now "undetectable" levels of HIV in his blood.

The treatment was developed by universities in the UK.

This is exciting news to HIV positive people around the world.

However they still have to monitor the patient for several months before any final conclusion can be made.

All we can do now is hope and pray that we finally have a cure for this disease.


http://www.rappler.com/science-nature/life-health/148080-new-hiv-treatment-promising-results-scientists


Saturday, October 1, 2016

Thursday, September 29, 2016

CDO callboy photo

I was reviewing old files of DiscreetBai Yahoo Groups and found this old photo uploaded around 2008?



I think he was a call boy back then.  I am not sure if he is one of those call boys who swindle gay clients in Cagayan de Oro.  Any updates on this guy?

Friday, September 23, 2016

Police gwapo

If only our police officers were these good looking, I would not mind the checkpoints! 



Wednesday, September 21, 2016

Cute jeepney passenger ass

While I was in a taxi, I was busy with my phone that I did not notice the jeep in front.  When the taxi stopped, my head moved up and there I saw the ass! 

The guy wearing black shirt with a number 23 on his back has a nice piece of ass.  I just could not help myself but take a picture of it. Bahala ka na diha Mr. taxi driver! Hahahaha




Monday, September 19, 2016

Risk of Oral Sex

Is oral sex less risky compared to penetrative sex?  

From what I have read so far, the answer to this question is yes.  Among the sexual acts, oral sex has less risk for HIV infection compared to penetrative sex (anal or vaginal).

HIV is transmitted through blood, semen or vaginal fluids and even breast milk.  The virus has to get through our bloodstream.

Now it does not mean if oral sex is less risky, you just suck anyone at anytime.  If you have sores or open wound in your mouth, having oral sex would increases the risk for infection.  Eating or even brushing your teeth can cause open wounds in your mouth.  So be careful.

As of the latest statistics, Cagayan de Oro is one of the 10 cities in the Philippines with high HIV infection.  In Mindanao, I think it is just second to Davao.

To avoid getting infected, the best thing to do is use a condom while having oral sex.  That is the only way to avoid contact of semen including pre-cum to your mouth.


http://www.hivplusmag.com/just-diagnosed/2016/9/12/can-i-get-hiv-through-oral-sex

Friday, September 16, 2016

Wednesday, September 14, 2016

Tips to avoid getting swindled in Cagayan de Oro City

I am reposting this warning.  I still get news of gay people in CDO being robbed or swindled.


To avoid getting swindled or robbed, here are some advise or tips to follow :

1. When meeting someone online, check their Facebook account or if not see each other through webcam. Today, most people have Facebook or webcams, so if that person does not have one, that is a warning sign.

2. If the person you meet online wants to meet with you immediately in your hotel room or apartment, that is a warning sign. Meet this person first in a public area or through webcam. If you do not like the person you are meeting, you can make an excuse and leave the place or simply turn off the webcam.

3. If you bring these strangers to your hotel room or apartment/home, make sure the hotel has a CCTV camera and the guy should register or surrender an ID to the hotel receptionist. Better yet, leave your valuables with the hotel receptionist for safe keeping and instruct them never to give it to anyone except you. Take a photo of the guy using your phone and send it to friends. If at home, make sure someone is at home to assist you in case of emergencies.

4. Gay swindlers are now in social networking sites. If the profile photo is not the same with the actual person you meet, that is a warning sign. Make an excuse and leave immediately. Do not anymore entertain them.

5. If someone asks you for a night out with his so called "friends and cousins", that is a warning sign. You might end up paying all of the drinks and even more. Sometimes you go out in a date, only to find out that his "cousin" will join you later. If this happens, make an excuse and leave! These swindlers sometimes operate in pairs or groups.

6. When in a motel, if the guy insists that you take a shower first, this is a warning sign. This is an opportunity for these swindlers to take your belongings and even your clothes. If you shower, take your clothes with you inside the bathroom and lock the door.

7. If you meet someone new and that guy wants to have sex with you, ask that person, are you a call boy? Some of these guys would not tell you that they are call boys. After sex they would suddenly ask money from you, even though you have not talked about it.

8. If a gay swindler threatens you that he will create a scene or "mag eskandalo" if you do not give your belongings, you should reply....GO AHEAD! PAG ESKANDALO. These swindlers are just bluffing. They do not really want to create a scene or else they will get involved in it and their identity exposed.

9. Beware of "masseurs" advertising their massage services online. There have been complaints of theft and swindling. It is best to get recommendations from friends or a reliable website.

10. Cagayan de Oro has a high HIV AIDS infection rate in Northern Mindanao. Every year infection rate in the city doubles (100% increase). You should not only be concerned about your physical safety when dealing with these call boys but your health as well.

Share this with friends! If you have been a victim of these swindlers, REPORT them to the Police!

Monday, September 12, 2016

Thursday, September 8, 2016

Photo alteration

The first time I saw the picture of this guy, I was impressed.  He looks handsome and clean.  I wanted to know more about him.



After scrolling down his timeline, I saw this selfie.




I logged out Facebook and watched TV instead.

Monday, September 5, 2016

Finding Prince Charming

The new reality TV show "Finding Prince Charming" is the gay version of the Bachelor.

Now this can be interesting according to the host Lance Bass.  Aside from falling in love with Prince Charming, they can fall in love amongst themselves!  Another gay orgy!




http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-3757290/Robert-Sepulveda-Jr-13-gorgeous-men-choose-Finding-Prince-Charming-suitors-unveiled.html

Saturday, September 3, 2016

Thursday, September 1, 2016

Mr. Gay World Philippines - Lanao del Sur

I was checking out Mr. Gay World Philippines contestants and I was surprised to see someone representing Lanao del Sur.

According to his Facebook account, he was born in Marawi but now resides in Metro Manila.






Vote for him online at

http://www.votemgwp.com/?contest=photo-detail&photo_id=116

Tuesday, August 30, 2016

Black and White

I love nude black and white photos.  I used to look for guys to model for nude photos but I gave up.  I could not find the right model.