Tuesday, December 2, 2014

Best time to come out

What is the best time to come out to your friends or family that you are gay?  The answer to this question varies in situations.  

If you are still studying, a student, you have to be more careful of your decision to come out.  If you are still dependent on your parents for finances, don't tell them yet unless you are 100% sure that they will react well to your coming out.  

What if they react badly to your coming out?  This would mean you leaving the house and losing contact with your family.  Are you prepared for this situation?

That is why it is important that if you are still a student, study hard.  After finishing college, get a job and work hard.  As soon as you feel you are already financially stable and can manage to be alone without the help of your family or even friends, then try coming out to them.

If you are not sure yet, then don't come out.  No one can force you to come out.

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