Thursday, October 24, 2013

Avoid getting robbed in Cagayan de Oro

There have been incidents of robbery or fraud in Cagayan de Oro involving gay people.

To avoid getting swindled or robbed, here are some advise or tips to follow :

1. When meeting someone online, check their Facebook account or if not see each other through webcam. Today, most people have Facebook or webcams, so if that person does not have one, that is a warning sign.

2. If the person you meet online wants to meet with you immediately in your hotel room or apartment, that is a warning sign. Meet this person first in a public area or through webcam. If you do not like the person you are meeting, you can make an excuse and leave the place or simply turn off the webcam.

3. If you bring these strangers to your hotel room or apartment/home, make sure the hotel has a CCTV camera and the guy should register or surrender an ID to the hotel receptionist. Better yet, leave your valuables with the hotel receptionist for safe keeping and instruct them never to give it to anyone except you. Take a photo of the guy using your phone and send it to friends. If at home, make sure someone is at home to assist you in case of emergencies.

4. Gay swindlers are now in social networking sites. If the profile photo is not the same with the actual person you meet, that is a warning sign. Make an excuse and leave immediately. Do not anymore entertain them.

5. If someone asks you for a night out with his so called "friends and cousins", that is a warning sign. You might end up paying all of the drinks and even more. Sometimes you go out in a date, only to find out that his "cousin" will join you later. If this happens, make an excuse and leave! These swindlers sometimes operate in pairs or groups.

6. When in a motel, if the guy insists that you take a shower first, this is a warning sign. This is an opportunity for these swindlers to take your belongings and even your clothes. If you shower, take your clothes with you inside the bathroom and lock the door.

7. If you meet someone new and that guy wants to have sex with you, ask that person, are you a call boy? Some of these guys would not tell you that they are call boys. After sex they would suddenly ask money from you, even though you have not talked about it.

8. If a gay swindler threatens you that he will create a scene or "mag eskandalo" if you do not give your belongings, you should reply....GO AHEAD! PAG ESKANDALO. These swindlers are just bluffing. They do not really want to create a scene or else they will get involved in it and their identity exposed.

9. Beware of "masseurs" advertising their massage services online. There have been complaints of theft and swindling. It is best to get recommendations from friends or a reliable website.

10. Cagayan de Oro has a high HIV AIDS infection rate in Northern Mindanao. Every year infection rate in the city doubles (100% increase). You should not only be concerned about your physical safety when dealing with these call boys but your health as well.

Share this with friends! If you have been a victim of these swindlers, REPORT them to the Police!


Anonymous said...

Off topic but you're kinda like the gay authority I could ask any gay questions.

I've always noticed that some guys get a hard on when I'm with them & some even toiching their raging bulge when I look.

Does it mean they fancy me? or are they gay? & want to have m2m or they just think I'm gay & they want me to suck their dongs?

DiscreetBai said...

How I wish I was an expert on gay stuff. With your situation, you have to know how to read between the lines. Some people want to play games or are not straight forward so they tend to give out signals or signs for you to decipher and understand. For example if a guy is touching his bulge and stares at you lustfully then its an obvious sign that you are invited to approach him and flirt with him.

Anonymous said...

how do you approach guys you want to have sex? baka magalit sila.

coz i lost the virginity of my butthole when a guy approached me while walkin the street & asked if I'm game, bi.

If I do that to other guyz magalit kaya sila?

DiscreetBai said...

This conversation deserves a page of its own. I will post my reply soon.