Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Do you trust your boyfriend?

Do you trust your boyfriend? How well do you trust your boyfriend?  This has always been an issue in gay relationships. 

Trust has to be earned not bought.  Some people use their money to gain someones trust.  In short, playing the Sugar Daddy role.  What if your money runs out or is not enough to sustain your boyfriends lavish lifestyle?  Would your boyfriend still trust you?  Money can't buy happiness.  Believe me, I have been in that situation before.  Not that I was a sugar daddy but despite having a meager salary, I was happy with my life.  I had good friends, office mates and family.  Mubo lang siguro ang akong kalipay sa kinabuhi.  Having an extravagant lifestyle can sometimes be stressful compared to a simple life.  You have to be yourself, your true self.  Do not use your money to woo someone.  The person must know you, your good and bad side not how much money your earn and can spend.  Sure you can spend for your boyfriend but at the end of the day, you should get to know each other well.


Trust has to be nurtured not rushed.  Trust takes time.  Not everyone can easily trust someone.  You have to prove yourself first to the person that you are trustworthy, capable of his personal trust and confidence.  

Trust is difficult to find these days.  That is why do not waste it.

Monday, November 26, 2012

YouTube : Anal Douching

Before having anal sex, clean your asshole first.  Actors in gay porn movies clean their assholes and the insides to make sure it is SANITARY.  Doing anal sex or rimming without proper cleaning can lead to various diseases.

Also read the blog article about oral and anal sex
http://www.discreetbai.com/p/oral-sex.html



Anal Douche

Sunday, November 25, 2012

Matthew Davis

Matthew Davis is known for his roles in Legally Blond and Vampire Diaries but his role in Blue Crush really heightened my interest on this guy.  Look at his photo!  He is the ultimate twink!  No rippling muscles or six pack abs, just plain lean body and just enough body hairs to tickle your fancy....

Saturday, November 24, 2012

Monique Wilson admits she is gay

Monique Wilson, known for her role in Ms. Saigon along with Lea Salonga, admitted in a press conference that she was gay (lesbian).

Most people might be shocked of this news but those within the showbiz industry knows very well she is gay.

The first time I saw her was during a Vagina Monologue show in Lauremar Beach resort in  Opol.  I knew way back then that she was gay.  My friend from Manila also confirmed this.

To Monique, thank you for coming out in the open.  You are a source of inspiration to the LGBT  community in the Philippines.

http://ph.omg.yahoo.com/news/monique-wilson-admits-she%E2%80%99s-gay-123819401.html

Photo taken from Interaksyon.com
 

Video : Pinoy Fleshlight

The guy in this video is the same in Pinoy Bonnet.  He is using this time a fleshlight to masturbate.

DISCLAIMER : DiscreetBai does not make any claims or suggestions to the sexual orientation or preference of the person or people involved in the video. 

Please practice safe sex!  Be responsible for yourself and others!

This video is for entertainment purposes only and should never be imitated.  Actors in this video undergo physical preparation (anal cleaning, HIV testing and others).

Please read more information about HIV AIDS and safe sex!

Friday, November 23, 2012

Maguindanao Massacre

The Maguindanao Massacre is considered the single deadliest event for journalists in history.  Around 34 journalists died in that massacre.  This should never happen again.

Journalists around the world are usually targeted because they report or expose to the world what they see and express the sentiments of the people.


Sometimes I see myself as a journalist, who is trying to expose or report to the gay community in Cagayan de Oro what these call boy swindlers are doing to us.  In fact, some of these swindlers have already threatened me here in the blog.

Their threats will not silence me.  Instead it will encourage me to do MORE.  I have already intensified my information campaign in Planet Romeo.  However, I still need your help.  I am but a single person in this fight against the swindlers.  I hope others would take my cause and help me spread the word.  There is strength in numbers.  Maghi-usa tang tanan pagsugpo aning mga mangingilad. 


   

HIV AIDS in Cagayan de Oro City

In past years, there has been a sudden increase of HIV-AIDS cases in the Philippines, most of which was through male-to-male sex.  The Department of Health has already declared an AIDS epidemic outbreak in the Philippines including Cagayan de Oro City.

For the first time in decades, the HIV-AIDS case in Cagayan de Oro City has reached double digits.  Here are the full statistics in the past years:

2008 - 6 cases
2009 - 9 cases
2010 - 14 cases
 2011 - 27 cases

Based on the statistics, the rate of the viral infection is at Fifty (50) percent annually.  If we follow this trend, in 2012, the HIV-AIDS cases in the city will reach close to 55 and by 2013 there will be over a 100 people in CDO with HIV-AIDS. 

If you are from Cagayan de Oro City, call the AIDS Hotline number (8822-area code) 72-1189.  This is a service by the City Health Office of Cagayan  de Oro.  They will entertain your questions without malice.  If they do insult or embarrass you in anyway, call the attention of the City Health Officers and report such incident.  These people are supposed to assist you in anyway. 

See other related articles
http://www.discreetbai.com/p/oral-sex.html

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Motorcycle Guy

If this guy offers you a ride, would you take his offer?  Even if it is raining like hell?



Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Facebook Guy

I was scanning Facebook and noticed this guys account.  Based on his photos, it seems he used to model.  Now definitely this guy is an eye candy....




Monday, November 19, 2012

Jerome Lantin of ABS CBN

Jerome Lantin is one of those cute news reporters of ABS CBN.  He has this boy next door appeal and look at the guys body....fit.....I am sweating




Saturday, November 17, 2012

Video : Girl on cam (straight)

For our bisexual fans.  Here is a girl having fun on cam.  If you have bisex or straight video links or clips to share, email it to discreetbai@gmail.com   It is really difficult to find bisex videos.

DISCLAIMER : DiscreetBai does not make any claims or suggestions to the sexual orientation or preference of the person or people involved in the video. 

Please practice safe sex!  Be responsible for yourself and others!

This video is for entertainment purposes only and should never be imitated.  Actors in this video undergo physical preparation (anal cleaning, HIV testing and others).

Please read more information about HIV AIDS and safe sex!


video

Friday, November 16, 2012

Channing Tatum is People's Magazine Sexiest Man

People's Magazine made the right choice.  For me, Channing Tatum is damn sexy.  He used to be a male stripper or what we can in the Philippines, a macho dancer.  He was lucky enough to become a male model and eventually an A-List Hollywood celebrity.

Channing Tatum is an inspiration to all of us.  We usually look down at male strippers but he proved to everyone that hard work and humility pays off.  He remains one of the nicest guys in Hollywood.

Photo taken from People.com

Tips to Avoid Getting Swindled in CDO

There have been incidents of robbery or fraud in Cagayan de Oro involving gay people.

To avoid getting swindled or robbed, here are some advise or tips to follow :

1. When meeting someone online, check their Facebook account or if not see each other through webcam. Today, most people have Facebook or webcams, so if that person does not have one, that is a warning sign.

2. If the person you meet online wants to meet with you immediately in your hotel room or apartment, that is a warning sign. Meet this person first in a public area or through webcam. If you do not like the person you are meeting, you can make an excuse and leave the place or simply turn off the webcam.


3. If you bring these strangers to your hotel room or apartment/home, make sure the hotel has a CCTV camera and the guy should register or surrender an ID to the hotel receptionist. Better yet, leave your valuables with the hotel receptionist for safe keeping and instruct them never to give it to anyone except you. Take a photo of the guy using your phone and send it to friends. If at home, make sure someone is at home to assist you in case of emergencies.


4. Gay swindlers are now in social networking sites.  If the profile photo is not the same with the actual person you meet, that is a warning sign.  Make an excuse and leave immediately.  Do not anymore entertain them.


5. If someone asks you for a night out with his so called "friends and cousins", that is a warning sign. You might end up paying all of the drinks and even more. Sometimes you go out in a date, only to find out that his "cousin" will join you later. If this happens, make an excuse and leave!
  These swindlers sometimes operate in pairs or groups.

6. When in a motel, if the guy insists that you take a shower first, this is a warning sign. This is an opportunity for these swindlers to take your belongings and even your clothes.  If you shower, take your clothes with you inside the bathroom and lock the door.


7.  If a gay swindler threatens you that he will create a scene or "mag eskandalo" if you do not give your belongings, you should reply....GO AHEAD! PAG ESKANDALO.  These swindlers are just bluffing.  They do not really want to create a scene or else they will get involved in it and their identity exposed.

Share this with friends! If you have been a victim of these swindlers, REPORT them to the Police!

Thursday, November 15, 2012

HIV AIDS in Cagayan de Oro City

In past years, there has been a sudden increase of HIV-AIDS cases in the Philippines, most of which was through male-to-male sex.  The Department of Health has already declared an AIDS epidemic outbreak in the Philippines including Cagayan de Oro City.

For the first time in decades, the HIV-AIDS case in Cagayan de Oro City has reached double digits.  Here are the full statistics in the past years:

2008 - 6 cases
2009 - 9 cases
2010 - 14 cases
 2011 - 27 cases

Based on the statistics, the rate of the viral infection is at Fifty (50) percent annually.  If we follow this trend, in 2012, the HIV-AIDS cases in the city will reach close to 55 and by 2013 there will be over a 100 people in CDO with HIV-AIDS. 

If you are from Cagayan de Oro City, call the AIDS Hotline number (8822-area code) 72-1189.  This is a service by the City Health Office of Cagayan  de Oro.  They will entertain your questions without malice.  If they do insult or embarrass you in anyway, call the attention of the City Health Officers and report such incident.  These people are supposed to assist you in anyway. 

See other related articles
http://www.discreetbai.com/p/oral-sex.html

Wednesday, November 14, 2012

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Male Prostitution

In a news clip featured by Umagang Kay Ganda in ABS-CBN, a guy named "Jay" was among those arrested during an anti-criminality drive in Caloocan City, Metro Manila.  Jay basically earns around 500 to 1,000 Pesos a day being a male escort in the streets of Caloocan.   He was forced to go into prostitution because he had to feed his siblings since their parents passed away.  He also claims that he uses a condom to protect himself from diseases. 

His story is a sad one and I sympathize with him.  As the sole bread winner in the family he has to do something for his family to survive.  Stories like these are heartbreaking.  However for some of these male prostitutes, it is a different story.  In Cagayan de Oro, most male prostitutes are swindlers and thieves.  How can you sympathize to their plight if all they do is rob you?

Again, let me reiterate my stand on this issue.  I do not encourage prostitution but reality bites.  Some people has no choice but to use what they have to survive.  Now, I have no problems with prostitutes as long as they provide the correct service as agreed upon.  As long as both parties including the client (ang bayot), respect each others right.  The problem with some gay clients, they are a bit aggressive and sometimes deceitful.  Respect begets respect.  You won't get respect if you do not respect others.


Monday, November 12, 2012

Mr. Philippines wins Mr. Manhunt International 2012

Congrats to Mr. June Macasaet for winning the title Mr. Manhunt International 2012.  This is the year of the Filipino Men.  Just recently a transgender representative of the Philippines won the Ms. International Queen title also held in Thailand.


Survey : Best Spa in Cagayan de Oro

After a week of survey, the results are finally in.  The survey question was, what is the best spa in Cagayan de Oro City.  

Of the nine people who voted, 55% of them approves of Nuat Thai located in Papa Juanitos Square just across the access road to Mallberry Suites.  It was then followed by Metta located in Divisoria and Sentara located near Pearlmont Inn along Limketkai Drive.

Any objections?  Well you should have voted then.  Up next, the worst spa in Cagayan de Oro!

Sunday, November 11, 2012

Centrio Mall escapades

Wow, I was there when Centrio Mall opened.  There were so many people.  Funny thing I saw those gay people who frequent in Gaisano Mall roaming around Centrio.  Checking out the restrooms?  But of course the men....cute guys in Centrio.

My people watching in Centrio paid off.  I saw this sales attendant in a store in Centrio.  My godness...perfect body, buffed and a face to match it.  I might go back there and ask...how much it that......hahahaha behave please!



Saturday, November 10, 2012

Dennis Trillo Macho Dancer

Dennis Trillo...what can I say...cute, adorable, the boy next door, someone you can bring home and meet your parents.  In GMA 7 show "Magdusa ka" he was an exotic dancer or macho dancer.  Check out the video clip.  Love it!!!




Friday, November 9, 2012

Centrio Mall opening today!

Everyone in CDO is excited for the soft opening of Centrio Mall todayFinally some descent place to hang out with good food and shops.  See you all there!


Tips to Avoiding Getting Swindled

There have been incidents of robbery or fraud in Cagayan de Oro involving gay people.

To avoid getting swindled or robbed, here are some advise or tips to follow :

1. When meeting someone online, check their Facebook account or if not see each other through webcam. Today, most people have Facebook or webcams, so if that person does not have one, that is a warning sign.

2. If the person you meet online wants to meet with you immediately in your hotel room or apartment, that is a warning sign. Meet this person first in a public area or through webcam. If you do not like the person you are meeting, you can make an excuse and leave the place or simply turn off the webcam.


3. If you bring these strangers to your hotel room or apartment/home, make sure the hotel has a CCTV camera and the guy should register or surrender an ID to the hotel receptionist. Better yet, leave your valuables with the hotel receptionist for safe keeping and instruct them never to give it to anyone except you. Take a photo of the guy using your phone and send it to friends. If at home, make sure someone is at home to assist you in case of emergencies.


4. Gay swindlers are now in social networking sites.  If the profile photo is not the same with the actual person you meet, that is a warning sign.  Make an excuse and leave immediately.  Do not anymore entertain them.


5. If someone asks you for a night out with his so called "friends and cousins", that is a warning sign. You might end up paying all of the drinks and even more. Sometimes you go out in a date, only to find out that his "cousin" will join you later. If this happens, make an excuse and leave!
  These swindlers sometimes operate in pairs or groups.

6. When in a motel, if the guy insists that you take a shower first, this is a warning sign. This is an opportunity for these swindlers to take your belongings and even your clothes.  If you shower, take your clothes with you inside the bathroom and lock the door.


7.  If a gay swindler threatens you that he will create a scene or "mag eskandalo" if you do not give your belongings, you should reply....GO AHEAD! PAG ESKANDALO.  These swindlers are just bluffing.  They do not really want to create a scene or else they will get involved in it and their identity exposed.

Share this with friends! If you have been a victim of these swindlers, REPORT them to the Police!

Thursday, November 8, 2012

1st PLU-CDO Regional Conference

LGBT's are encourage to join the 1st PLU-CDO Regional Conference, this coming November 10 (Saturday), 8:00 am at De Luxe Hotel near the Cogon Public Market.  Though I am not a fan of Ang Ladlad Party but I believe in the importance of this conference to the LGBT community.


Wednesday, November 7, 2012

Manhunt International 2012

Best of luck to June Macasaet who will represent the Philippines in the Mr. Manhunt International competition to be held in Thailand this coming November 9, 2012.  June Macasaet modeled in the Philippines including Century Tuna.

Check out the Mr. Manhunt website and vote for June Macasaet.

I also included some photos of the other contestants.  Who would you choose based on these photos?

Mr. Philippines
Mr. China
Mr. Greece
Mr. Hong Kong
Mr. Indonesia
Mr. Malaysia
Mr. Singapore
Mr. Sweden
Mr. Thailand
 



Tuesday, November 6, 2012

Congrats to the Philippine Volcanoes Rugby Team

The Philippine Volcanoes won the bronze medal in the HSBC Asian Rugby Sevens Series Singapore Sevens last Saturday.  This is a milestone for the Philippines national rugby teamRugby is a relatively new sport in the Philippines as it is barely played or known around the country.

Hopefully interest in rugby would spread around the country and produce more locally trained talent.  As of the moment, all of the members of the Philippine Volcanoes are half breed Filipinos or mestizos.

Last year, people got to know more about the rugby team not because of the sport but due to the controversial Bench underwear billboards that showed most of the rugby team in sexy underwear.

I think I posted some of them here before.  The photo below is Kenneth Stern, a member of the Philippine Volcanoes Rugby team.

http://ph.sports.yahoo.com/blogs/thepassionatefan/philippine-volcanoes-edge-korea-reach-rugby-sevens-world-124751865.html



Monday, November 5, 2012

James Bond is Bisexual?

In the latest James Bond movie, "Skyfall", people are talking about James Bond's sexuality.  

There was a scene in which James Bond was tied on a chair while the villain caressed his neck and torso.  Jaw dropping?  Not yet.  After that homoerotic scene, James Bond's response to the villain was "What makes you think this is my first time?" My jaw dropped!

Ohh James...really?  This is not your first??  I am sweating and drooling....

However the actors deny the homoerotic angle to the scene.  James Bond is straight as an arrow and was merely teasing or psyching up the situation.  

Damn!  Such a cruel joke...cruel!!

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/10/16/james-bond-bisexual-daniel-craig-javier-bardem-skyfall-_n_1970831.html 

From Casino Royale film

 

Search for Mr. Gay World Philippines 2013

The search is on once again for the Mr. Gay World Philippines 2013.  The winner will represent the Philippines in Antwerp, Belguim for the Mr. Gay World 2013.  Check the video for more details.

The Mr. Gay World in 2011 was held in Manila.


   

Sunday, November 4, 2012

Ms. Philippines wins Transgender contest


Congrats to Ms. Philippines, Kevin Balot for taking the title of Ms. International Queen 2012 in Pattaya, Thailand last November 2, 2012.  Ms. International Queen is a transgender/transexual pageant.   And you think only Filipina women are amongst the most beautiful in the world?

http://news.yahoo.com/photos/entertainment-slideshow/kevin-balot-reacts-being-crowned-winner-miss-international-photo-173421825.html

Saturday, November 3, 2012

Video : Pinoy Bonnet

Pinoy stocky guy with a bonnet masturbating in front of a cam.

DISCLAIMER : DiscreetBai does not make any claims or suggestions to the sexual orientation or preference of the person or people involved in the video. 

Please practice safe sex!  Be responsible for yourself and others!

This video is for entertainment purposes only and should never be imitated.  Actors in this video undergo physical preparation (anal cleaning, HIV testing and others).

Please read more information about HIV AIDS and safe sex!

Friday, November 2, 2012

Random Guy in All Saints Day

I was taking pictures around the cemetery and spotted this cute guy.  If he probably joined Barangay Gwapo, he would have won.

Anyway have a blessed weekend.


Thursday, November 1, 2012

HIV AIDS in Cagayan de Oro City

In past years, there has been a sudden increase of HIV-AIDS cases in the Philippines, most of which was through male-to-male sex.  The Department of Health has already declared an AIDS epidemic outbreak in the Philippines including Cagayan de Oro City.

For the first time in decades, the HIV-AIDS case in Cagayan de Oro City has reached double digits.  Here are the full statistics in the past years:

2008 - 6 cases
2009 - 9 cases
2010 - 14 cases
 2011 - 27 cases

Based on the statistics, the rate of the viral infection is at Fifty (50) percent annually.  If we follow this trend, in 2012, the HIV-AIDS cases in the city will reach close to 55 and by 2013 there will be over a 100 people in CDO with HIV-AIDS. 

If you are from Cagayan de Oro City, call the AIDS Hotline number (8822-area code) 72-1189.  This is a service by the City Health Office of Cagayan  de Oro.  They will entertain your questions without malice.  If they do insult or embarrass you in anyway, call the attention of the City Health Officers and report such incident.  These people are supposed to assist you in anyway. 

See other related articles
http://www.discreetbai.com/p/oral-sex.html