Saturday, December 29, 2012

Video : Mr. Coverboy Macho Dancer 2 of 4

This is an old video of Mr. Coverboy, a macho dancer competition.  I presume this was held in Manila.  There are 4 parts to this video.  Since it is quite rare and few, I will spread this out in the next few months.  Sorry :)

DISCLAIMER : DiscreetBai does not make any claims or suggestions to the sexual orientation or preference of the person or people involved in the video. 

Please practice safe sex!  Be responsible for yourself and others!

This video is for entertainment purposes only and should never be imitated.  Actors in this video undergo physical preparation (anal cleaning, HIV testing and others).

Please read more information about HIV AIDS and safe sex!

Thursday, December 27, 2012

HIV AIDS in Cagayan de Oro City

In past years, there has been a sudden increase of HIV-AIDS cases in the Philippines, most of which was through male-to-male sex.  The Department of Health has already declared an AIDS epidemic outbreak in the Philippines including Cagayan de Oro City.

For the first time in decades, the HIV-AIDS case in Cagayan de Oro City has reached double digits.  Here are the full statistics in the past years:

2008 - 6 cases
2009 - 9 cases
2010 - 14 cases
 2011 - 27 cases
2012 - 52 cases


Based on the statistics, the rate of the viral infection is at One Hundred (100%) percent annually.  If we follow this trend, in 2013, the HIV-AIDS cases in the city will reach the 100 mark. 

If you are from Cagayan de Oro City, call the AIDS Hotline number (8822-area code) 72-1189.  This is a service by the City Health Office of Cagayan  de Oro.  They will entertain your questions without malice.  If they do insult or embarrass you in anyway, call the attention of the City Health Officers and report such incident.  These people are supposed to assist you in anyway. 

See other related articles
http://www.discreetbai.com/p/oral-sex.html

Wednesday, December 26, 2012

Nothing new in Manila Film Festival

I wanted to watch a movie yesterday and found out that all cinemas in CDO were showing Tagalog films.  What was happening?  Then my friend told me it was due to the Manila Film Festival.

I am not really a fan of the Manila Film Festival.  For the past decades, the film festival has been hounded by controversies and scandals.   Every year someone complaints that he or she was cheated.  The worst was in 1994, when hosts, Viveka Babajee-Ms. Universe-Mauritius, Rocky Gutierrez (brother of Ruffa Gutierrez) and Gretchen Barretto tried to change the names of the winners in favor of Ruffa Gutierrez and Gabby Conception.  Lolit Solis was implicated as the master mind of the scam.  After the incident, Gabby Conception, Viveka Babajee and Ruffa Gutierrez left the Philippines and stayed abroad for sometime.  

Years later, Ruffa Gutierrez became a Ms. World title holder, Gabby Conception returned back to the country and the showbiz industry, Viveka Babajee committed suicide and Lolit Solis remained an influential producer.  Typical of Filipino justice, the people involved in the scam were never imprisoned or punished.


Gretchen Barretto, Viveka Babajee and Rocky Gutierrez in 1994

Tuesday, December 25, 2012

Seasons Greetings to Everyone!

Merry Christmas to everyone.  Its that time of the year that we share our love to mankind.  So have sex hehehehehe just be safe.




Sunday, December 23, 2012

Massage style

I would love to get this type of massage.  I have not tried this massage style yet.  It feels relaxing.




Saturday, December 22, 2012

Video : Bisex Nurse

This is a rare video.  It is quite difficult to find bisexual videos.  As expected, this video involves two men and a woman or what they call MMF (Male-Male-Female).  Enjoy!

DISCLAIMER : DiscreetBai does not make any claims or suggestions to the sexual orientation or preference of the person or people involved in the video. 

Please practice safe sex!  Be responsible for yourself and others!

This video is for entertainment purposes only and should never be imitated.  Actors in this video undergo physical preparation (anal cleaning, HIV testing and others).

Please read more information about HIV AIDS and safe sex!

video

Thursday, December 20, 2012

Congrats to Ms. Philippines!

Congrats to Ms. Janine Tugonon, Ms. Philippines for winning 1st runner in the Ms. Universe 2012 pageant.  We are so proud of you!


Wednesday, December 19, 2012

Ms. Philippines, Janine Tugonon

Let us show all our support to Ms. Janine Tugonon in her quest to win the title Ms. Universe 2012.  The Ms. Universe pageant will held in Las Vegas City, USA on December 19.  You can watch the pageant live on StarWorld, December 20, 9:00am (Philippine time).  Do not be confused of the dates.  US time is different from Philippine time.



Tuesday, December 18, 2012

RH Bill has passed the final reading!

Finally after years of debate, the Reproductive Health Bill or RH Bill has passed both houses of Congress.  It is a few steps away from becoming a law.

We need this law.  We have to save our country from neglect and hardship from too many unwanted children.

Thank you President Aquino for making this law possible!


DiscreetBai Webcam Chat

I have been looking for a webcam chat format for DiscreetBai in the past years and finally I found one.  You can now chat with friends on cam, face-to-face.

I hope you like the new webcam chat feature of DiscreetBai.  If you have any suggestions, just post a comment here.  I would love to hear from you guys.

Monday, December 17, 2012

Sendong 1st Anniversary

Between December 16 and 17, 2011, Tropical Storm Sendong hit Cagayan de Oro City.  It left thousands dead and missing and caught everyone by surprise.

Since then the city has tried to get back on its feet and move on.  However for those families who are still searching for their love ones, it is a struggle to leave the past behind.  Not knowing the fate of their love ones is heartbreaking.

I hope the survivors of Sendong would soon find closure and peace in their hearts so they can once again live their life to the fullest.


Sunday, December 16, 2012

RH Bill passed on the 2nd reading

The controversial Reproductive Health Bill or RH Bill is now close to becoming a law.  After years of languishing in Congress, it has finally passed the 2nd reading.  This means, if it passes the 3rd and final reading, it becomes a law.

It is funny how the Catholic Church is complaining that the President is exerting his influence over the bill.  When in fact the Catholic Church itself through its Catholic organizations are visiting Congressmen, lobbying against the bill.  If you are also doing it, do not complain.

We really need this law.  We have to control our population.  Can you imagine a poor family having 6 to 8 children?  How can you feed a family of 10?  Maglisod naman gani buhi ug duha ka anak, walo pa kaha?  If only these poor families had lesser children, they would be better feed, educated and loved by their parents.  A well educated and loved child therefore goes to school, does not do drugs, does not commit crimes and therefore it also translates that we will have a safe and better community.  Imagine streets without begging children?  Imagine streets without kids committing crimes or vandalism?

Support the RH Bill!



Saturday, December 15, 2012

Video : Mr. Coverboy Macho Dancer 1 of 4

This is an old video of Mr. Coverboy, a macho dancer competition.  I presume this was held in Manila.  There are 4 parts to this video.  Since it is quite rare and few, I will spread this out in the next few months.  Sorry :)


DISCLAIMER : DiscreetBai does not make any claims or suggestions to the sexual orientation or preference of the person or people involved in the video. 

Please practice safe sex!  Be responsible for yourself and others!

This video is for entertainment purposes only and should never be imitated.  Actors in this video undergo physical preparation (anal cleaning, HIV testing and others).

Please read more information about HIV AIDS and safe sex!

Friday, December 14, 2012

Tips to Avoid Getting Swindled in CDO


There have been incidents of robbery or fraud in Cagayan de Oro involving gay people.

To avoid getting swindled or robbed, here are some advise or tips to follow :

1. When meeting someone online, check their Facebook account or if not see each other through webcam. Today, most people have Facebook or webcams, so if that person does not have one, that is a warning sign.

2. If the person you meet online wants to meet with you immediately in your hotel room or apartment, that is a warning sign. Meet this person first in a public area or through webcam. If you do not like the person you are meeting, you can make an excuse and leave the place or simply turn off the webcam.
 

3. If you bring these strangers to your hotel room or apartment/home, make sure the hotel has a CCTV camera and the guy should register or surrender an ID to the hotel receptionist. Better yet, leave your valuables with the hotel receptionist for safe keeping and instruct them never to give it to anyone except you. Take a photo of the guy using your phone and send it to friends. If at home, make sure someone is at home to assist you in case of emergencies.
 

4. Gay swindlers are now in social networking sites.  If the profile photo is not the same with the actual person you meet, that is a warning sign.  Make an excuse and leave immediately.  Do not anymore entertain them.


5. If someone asks you for a night out with his so called "friends and cousins", that is a warning sign. You might end up paying all of the drinks and even more. Sometimes you go out in a date, only to find out that his "cousin" will join you later. If this happens, make an excuse and leave!
  These swindlers sometimes operate in pairs or groups.

6. When in a motel, if the guy insists that you take a shower first, this is a warning sign. This is an opportunity for these swindlers to take your belongings and even your clothes.  If you shower, take your clothes with you inside the bathroom and lock the door.
 


7.  If you meet someone new and that guy wants to have sex with you, ask that person, are you a call boy?  Some of these guys would not tell you that they are call boys.  After sex they would suddenly ask money from you, even though you have not talked about it.

8.  If a gay swindler threatens you that he will create a scene or "mag eskandalo" if you do not give your belongings, you should reply....GO AHEAD! PAG ESKANDALO.  These swindlers are just bluffing.  They do not really want to create a scene or else they will get involved in it and  their identity exposed.

Share this with friends! If you have been a victim of these swindlers, REPORT them to the Police!

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Bisexual? Are you sure?

I was checking PlanetRomeo and as usual found someone who was familiar to me.  This guys profile said that he is bisexual.  Face palm....Sigurado ka dong sa imong sexual orientation? Are you sure?  I have seen this guy several times and he is no bisexual.  In fact he is so girly or effeminate that I doubt a girl would even have sex with him.

I do not really understand why he could not accept being gay.  Is he in denial or just plain lying?  If you do not get aroused by boobs and pussy, then don't label yourself bisexual.  It does not mean that if you "appreciate" a woman's beauty or body, you are already a bisexual.  If that is the case, daghan na kaayo bisexual nga fashion designers.

As defined clinically, a bisexual enjoys sexual relationship or arousal from both men and women.   Again, key word is sexual arousal.  If you see a sexy guy and a girl, your sexual attention to both them should be the same.

So the next time you fill up the sexual orientation box in your profile, ask your friends or other people about it, because most of the time they know better than you do.

Tuesday, December 11, 2012

YouTube : Big Gay vs. Little Gay

Does height really matter in determining the size of your penis?  Not really.  A friend of mine told me that he had sex with a basketball player and his penis was disappointingly short.  While on the other hand, some short guys do have a well endowed penis.  So whether you are short or tall, what matters is how you use your tool.



Monday, December 10, 2012

Brazil Carnaval Male Go-Go Dancers

In the Philippines we call these guys as "macho dancers".  In other places, they are called "go go dancers", "exotic dancers" or simply male strippers.

Male strippers in the Philippines are too sensual when dancing compared to other places.  I do not really see them dance like those in other countries.

Check out this video of Go-go dancers in Brazil

Sunday, December 9, 2012

More on Mallberry Security Guards

Passed by the area again.  Got a better picture of the guards in Mallberry Business Suites.  They look really good!  I actually took a video of them but I think I already went overboard! hahahahaha



Saturday, December 8, 2012

Video : Japanese Masato

Japanese twink named Masato being assisted by a friend.  Enjoy!

DISCLAIMER : DiscreetBai does not make any claims or suggestions to the sexual orientation or preference of the person or people involved in the video. 

Please practice safe sex!  Be responsible for yourself and others!

This video is for entertainment purposes only and should never be imitated.  Actors in this video undergo physical preparation (anal cleaning, HIV testing and others).

Please read more information about HIV AIDS and safe sex!

Thursday, December 6, 2012

Tips to Avoid Getting Swindled in CDO

There have been incidents of robbery or fraud in Cagayan de Oro involving gay people.

To avoid getting swindled or robbed, here are some advise or tips to follow :

1. When meeting someone online, check their Facebook account or if not see each other through webcam. Today, most people have Facebook or webcams, so if that person does not have one, that is a warning sign.

2. If the person you meet online wants to meet with you immediately in your hotel room or apartment, that is a warning sign. Meet this person first in a public area or through webcam. If you do not like the person you are meeting, you can make an excuse and leave the place or simply turn off the webcam.
 

3. If you bring these strangers to your hotel room or apartment/home, make sure the hotel has a CCTV camera and the guy should register or surrender an ID to the hotel receptionist. Better yet, leave your valuables with the hotel receptionist for safe keeping and instruct them never to give it to anyone except you. Take a photo of the guy using your phone and send it to friends. If at home, make sure someone is at home to assist you in case of emergencies.
 

4. Gay swindlers are now in social networking sites.  If the profile photo is not the same with the actual person you meet, that is a warning sign.  Make an excuse and leave immediately.  Do not anymore entertain them.


5. If someone asks you for a night out with his so called "friends and cousins", that is a warning sign. You might end up paying all of the drinks and even more. Sometimes you go out in a date, only to find out that his "cousin" will join you later. If this happens, make an excuse and leave!
  These swindlers sometimes operate in pairs or groups.

6. When in a motel, if the guy insists that you take a shower first, this is a warning sign. This is an opportunity for these swindlers to take your belongings and even your clothes.  If you shower, take your clothes with you inside the bathroom and lock the door.
 


7.  If you meet someone new and that guy wants to have sex with you, ask that person, are you a call boy?  Some of these guys would not tell you that they are call boys.  After sex they would suddenly ask money from you, even though you have not talked about it.

8.  If a gay swindler threatens you that he will create a scene or "mag eskandalo" if you do not give your belongings, you should reply....GO AHEAD! PAG ESKANDALO.  These swindlers are just bluffing.  They do not really want to create a scene or else they will get involved in it and  their identity exposed.

Share this with friends! If you have been a victim of these swindlers, REPORT them to the Police!

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Survived Typhoon Pablo

It was scary.  When the typhoon hit CDO, the winds were strong and the rain intense.  I was worried that our roof would fly off or worst a debris would hit us inside the house.  Anyway, the weather has already cleared and we are just cleaning up the surroundings.  We are thankful there was no major damage or loss of lives.

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Typhoon Pablo

Stay indoors and avoid unnecessary movement.  The typhoon is expected to reach Cagayan de Oro around afternoon.  There is still electricity where I am so I hope for the best.  Take care guys.


Worst Spa in Cagayan de Oro City

For two weeks the blog survey asked for the worst spa in Cagayan de Oro City.  Fourteen people voted and six or 42% said that Ta Tsu Jin located along Capistrano Street was the worst spa in the city.

Any objections?  It seems in other blogs, this is also the consensus.  Post your comments and be heard.

Monday, December 3, 2012

52 HIV AIDS cases in Cagayan de Oro

From 27 cases last year, this year the HIV AIDS cases in Cagayan de Oro has reached 52.  The infection rate in the city is jumping around 100% annually.  If this continues on, the infection rate of HIV AIDS in Cagayan de Oro will reach over 100.

Again PLEASE PRACTICE safe sex!

Sunday, December 2, 2012

Incoming Typhoon Pablo

There is an incoming typhoon (international name Bopha) in the next few days.  Currently it is still outside the Philippines.  Once it enters Philippine waters it will be named Pablo.  It is predicted to pass through eastern and even northern parts of Mindanao.  

Residents in Misamis Oriental including Cagayan de Oro are advised to prepare and listen to government advisory and warnings.  Avoid listening to rumors and unverified text messages. 


Video : Japanese Gay Video

It is the start of the Christmas Season!  Here is a treat to you all...2 gay Japanese videos!  Enjoy and Merry Christmas!

DISCLAIMER : DiscreetBai does not make any claims or suggestions to the sexual orientation or preference of the person or people involved in the video. 

Please practice safe sex!  Be responsible for yourself and others!

This video is for entertainment purposes only and should never be imitated.  Actors in this video undergo physical preparation (anal cleaning, HIV testing and others).

Please read more information about HIV AIDS and safe sex!

video


video

Saturday, December 1, 2012

World AIDS Day : Getting to Zero

Once again, the world remembers those who have died and is suffering from HIV-AIDS.  

"Getting to Zero" is the theme of the World AIDS Day 2012, echoing the UNAIDS vision of achieving "Zero new infections, Zero discrimination and Zero AIDS-related deaths".  This theme will be used until 2015.



Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Do you trust your boyfriend?

Do you trust your boyfriend? How well do you trust your boyfriend?  This has always been an issue in gay relationships. 

Trust has to be earned not bought.  Some people use their money to gain someones trust.  In short, playing the Sugar Daddy role.  What if your money runs out or is not enough to sustain your boyfriends lavish lifestyle?  Would your boyfriend still trust you?  Money can't buy happiness.  Believe me, I have been in that situation before.  Not that I was a sugar daddy but despite having a meager salary, I was happy with my life.  I had good friends, office mates and family.  Mubo lang siguro ang akong kalipay sa kinabuhi.  Having an extravagant lifestyle can sometimes be stressful compared to a simple life.  You have to be yourself, your true self.  Do not use your money to woo someone.  The person must know you, your good and bad side not how much money your earn and can spend.  Sure you can spend for your boyfriend but at the end of the day, you should get to know each other well.


Trust has to be nurtured not rushed.  Trust takes time.  Not everyone can easily trust someone.  You have to prove yourself first to the person that you are trustworthy, capable of his personal trust and confidence.  

Trust is difficult to find these days.  That is why do not waste it.

Monday, November 26, 2012

YouTube : Anal Douching

Before having anal sex, clean your asshole first.  Actors in gay porn movies clean their assholes and the insides to make sure it is SANITARY.  Doing anal sex or rimming without proper cleaning can lead to various diseases.

Also read the blog article about oral and anal sex
http://www.discreetbai.com/p/oral-sex.html



Anal Douche

Sunday, November 25, 2012

Matthew Davis

Matthew Davis is known for his roles in Legally Blond and Vampire Diaries but his role in Blue Crush really heightened my interest on this guy.  Look at his photo!  He is the ultimate twink!  No rippling muscles or six pack abs, just plain lean body and just enough body hairs to tickle your fancy....

Saturday, November 24, 2012

Monique Wilson admits she is gay

Monique Wilson, known for her role in Ms. Saigon along with Lea Salonga, admitted in a press conference that she was gay (lesbian).

Most people might be shocked of this news but those within the showbiz industry knows very well she is gay.

The first time I saw her was during a Vagina Monologue show in Lauremar Beach resort in  Opol.  I knew way back then that she was gay.  My friend from Manila also confirmed this.

To Monique, thank you for coming out in the open.  You are a source of inspiration to the LGBT  community in the Philippines.

http://ph.omg.yahoo.com/news/monique-wilson-admits-she%E2%80%99s-gay-123819401.html

Photo taken from Interaksyon.com
 

Video : Pinoy Fleshlight

The guy in this video is the same in Pinoy Bonnet.  He is using this time a fleshlight to masturbate.

DISCLAIMER : DiscreetBai does not make any claims or suggestions to the sexual orientation or preference of the person or people involved in the video. 

Please practice safe sex!  Be responsible for yourself and others!

This video is for entertainment purposes only and should never be imitated.  Actors in this video undergo physical preparation (anal cleaning, HIV testing and others).

Please read more information about HIV AIDS and safe sex!

Friday, November 23, 2012

Maguindanao Massacre

The Maguindanao Massacre is considered the single deadliest event for journalists in history.  Around 34 journalists died in that massacre.  This should never happen again.

Journalists around the world are usually targeted because they report or expose to the world what they see and express the sentiments of the people.


Sometimes I see myself as a journalist, who is trying to expose or report to the gay community in Cagayan de Oro what these call boy swindlers are doing to us.  In fact, some of these swindlers have already threatened me here in the blog.

Their threats will not silence me.  Instead it will encourage me to do MORE.  I have already intensified my information campaign in Planet Romeo.  However, I still need your help.  I am but a single person in this fight against the swindlers.  I hope others would take my cause and help me spread the word.  There is strength in numbers.  Maghi-usa tang tanan pagsugpo aning mga mangingilad. 


   

HIV AIDS in Cagayan de Oro City

In past years, there has been a sudden increase of HIV-AIDS cases in the Philippines, most of which was through male-to-male sex.  The Department of Health has already declared an AIDS epidemic outbreak in the Philippines including Cagayan de Oro City.

For the first time in decades, the HIV-AIDS case in Cagayan de Oro City has reached double digits.  Here are the full statistics in the past years:

2008 - 6 cases
2009 - 9 cases
2010 - 14 cases
 2011 - 27 cases

Based on the statistics, the rate of the viral infection is at Fifty (50) percent annually.  If we follow this trend, in 2012, the HIV-AIDS cases in the city will reach close to 55 and by 2013 there will be over a 100 people in CDO with HIV-AIDS. 

If you are from Cagayan de Oro City, call the AIDS Hotline number (8822-area code) 72-1189.  This is a service by the City Health Office of Cagayan  de Oro.  They will entertain your questions without malice.  If they do insult or embarrass you in anyway, call the attention of the City Health Officers and report such incident.  These people are supposed to assist you in anyway. 

See other related articles
http://www.discreetbai.com/p/oral-sex.html

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Motorcycle Guy

If this guy offers you a ride, would you take his offer?  Even if it is raining like hell?



Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Facebook Guy

I was scanning Facebook and noticed this guys account.  Based on his photos, it seems he used to model.  Now definitely this guy is an eye candy....




Monday, November 19, 2012

Jerome Lantin of ABS CBN

Jerome Lantin is one of those cute news reporters of ABS CBN.  He has this boy next door appeal and look at the guys body....fit.....I am sweating




Saturday, November 17, 2012

Video : Girl on cam (straight)

For our bisexual fans.  Here is a girl having fun on cam.  If you have bisex or straight video links or clips to share, email it to discreetbai@gmail.com   It is really difficult to find bisex videos.

DISCLAIMER : DiscreetBai does not make any claims or suggestions to the sexual orientation or preference of the person or people involved in the video. 

Please practice safe sex!  Be responsible for yourself and others!

This video is for entertainment purposes only and should never be imitated.  Actors in this video undergo physical preparation (anal cleaning, HIV testing and others).

Please read more information about HIV AIDS and safe sex!


video

Friday, November 16, 2012

Channing Tatum is People's Magazine Sexiest Man

People's Magazine made the right choice.  For me, Channing Tatum is damn sexy.  He used to be a male stripper or what we can in the Philippines, a macho dancer.  He was lucky enough to become a male model and eventually an A-List Hollywood celebrity.

Channing Tatum is an inspiration to all of us.  We usually look down at male strippers but he proved to everyone that hard work and humility pays off.  He remains one of the nicest guys in Hollywood.

Photo taken from People.com

Tips to Avoid Getting Swindled in CDO

There have been incidents of robbery or fraud in Cagayan de Oro involving gay people.

To avoid getting swindled or robbed, here are some advise or tips to follow :

1. When meeting someone online, check their Facebook account or if not see each other through webcam. Today, most people have Facebook or webcams, so if that person does not have one, that is a warning sign.

2. If the person you meet online wants to meet with you immediately in your hotel room or apartment, that is a warning sign. Meet this person first in a public area or through webcam. If you do not like the person you are meeting, you can make an excuse and leave the place or simply turn off the webcam.


3. If you bring these strangers to your hotel room or apartment/home, make sure the hotel has a CCTV camera and the guy should register or surrender an ID to the hotel receptionist. Better yet, leave your valuables with the hotel receptionist for safe keeping and instruct them never to give it to anyone except you. Take a photo of the guy using your phone and send it to friends. If at home, make sure someone is at home to assist you in case of emergencies.


4. Gay swindlers are now in social networking sites.  If the profile photo is not the same with the actual person you meet, that is a warning sign.  Make an excuse and leave immediately.  Do not anymore entertain them.


5. If someone asks you for a night out with his so called "friends and cousins", that is a warning sign. You might end up paying all of the drinks and even more. Sometimes you go out in a date, only to find out that his "cousin" will join you later. If this happens, make an excuse and leave!
  These swindlers sometimes operate in pairs or groups.

6. When in a motel, if the guy insists that you take a shower first, this is a warning sign. This is an opportunity for these swindlers to take your belongings and even your clothes.  If you shower, take your clothes with you inside the bathroom and lock the door.


7.  If a gay swindler threatens you that he will create a scene or "mag eskandalo" if you do not give your belongings, you should reply....GO AHEAD! PAG ESKANDALO.  These swindlers are just bluffing.  They do not really want to create a scene or else they will get involved in it and their identity exposed.

Share this with friends! If you have been a victim of these swindlers, REPORT them to the Police!

Thursday, November 15, 2012

HIV AIDS in Cagayan de Oro City

In past years, there has been a sudden increase of HIV-AIDS cases in the Philippines, most of which was through male-to-male sex.  The Department of Health has already declared an AIDS epidemic outbreak in the Philippines including Cagayan de Oro City.

For the first time in decades, the HIV-AIDS case in Cagayan de Oro City has reached double digits.  Here are the full statistics in the past years:

2008 - 6 cases
2009 - 9 cases
2010 - 14 cases
 2011 - 27 cases

Based on the statistics, the rate of the viral infection is at Fifty (50) percent annually.  If we follow this trend, in 2012, the HIV-AIDS cases in the city will reach close to 55 and by 2013 there will be over a 100 people in CDO with HIV-AIDS. 

If you are from Cagayan de Oro City, call the AIDS Hotline number (8822-area code) 72-1189.  This is a service by the City Health Office of Cagayan  de Oro.  They will entertain your questions without malice.  If they do insult or embarrass you in anyway, call the attention of the City Health Officers and report such incident.  These people are supposed to assist you in anyway. 

See other related articles
http://www.discreetbai.com/p/oral-sex.html

Wednesday, November 14, 2012

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Male Prostitution

In a news clip featured by Umagang Kay Ganda in ABS-CBN, a guy named "Jay" was among those arrested during an anti-criminality drive in Caloocan City, Metro Manila.  Jay basically earns around 500 to 1,000 Pesos a day being a male escort in the streets of Caloocan.   He was forced to go into prostitution because he had to feed his siblings since their parents passed away.  He also claims that he uses a condom to protect himself from diseases. 

His story is a sad one and I sympathize with him.  As the sole bread winner in the family he has to do something for his family to survive.  Stories like these are heartbreaking.  However for some of these male prostitutes, it is a different story.  In Cagayan de Oro, most male prostitutes are swindlers and thieves.  How can you sympathize to their plight if all they do is rob you?

Again, let me reiterate my stand on this issue.  I do not encourage prostitution but reality bites.  Some people has no choice but to use what they have to survive.  Now, I have no problems with prostitutes as long as they provide the correct service as agreed upon.  As long as both parties including the client (ang bayot), respect each others right.  The problem with some gay clients, they are a bit aggressive and sometimes deceitful.  Respect begets respect.  You won't get respect if you do not respect others.